Today , my ex-classmate (Kampar) which is also my friend reminds me what exactly friendship means......
Friendship have a lot of meaning to certain peoples.
Some means friend is use to entertain themselves from being bored....
Some means to share everything with them.....
Some means is to be betray in order to get something or someone....
& some people treated friends like a scarecrow..... when we need help or people to be back-stab, we search them.... when there is nothing, we leave them them a lone like a scarecrow in a paddy field standing alone....
There is a saying, ' If I help them, they will help me back' . It is proven wrong especially to those who are selfish. When they need you, they talk to you. When they don't, they treat you like you never exist.... ( like the scarecrow) So, the saying of , " If I help them, i will get reward or something goood will happen to me" is much more preferable.
There is no second chance in certain things. Especially if after u betray someone which is your friend, a friend who always stands by your side, it is useless to regret. As you can try to imagine, youself being betray by a person who you think is your best friend and the most important friend, it's hard to accept any of the apologies from that person. If anyone being betray and still accept you as their friend, they are really nice to you but still, the relationship sure will not be nice as compared to it used to be as the person will scare it will happen again.
Sometimes, when you want to BE FRIEND with the person you had already knew, you no need to keep talking because they might find you annoying and as a result they will hate you except you do it with intent ( mostly they do it because they want to be left alone)
These are my experience I get from watching THESE things happening around.....