Eg. A B and C are friends.
three of them are quite close. Until one day, there are some disagreement of opinion between A and C ....
It is not a small matter.
They didn't talk for almost a week.
B who prefer not to involve, stay outside of the topic until one day while chatting, B telling A that he should join others.
Maybe you will think that hmmm..... how nice is B. B hopes there is no quarrel happens.
what if B keep telling, a bit of persuading A to join others than them.....
It only gives me the feeling of B don't want A to be there to causes him into the mess.
In the first place, if its not A fault and you are playing A part, what would you felt.
If B really meant to persuade you to join others....
Wouldn't you think that,
" why don't just tell me that you scare I will cause trouble to you, I might be surprised if you are straightforward but better than I thought you are saying for my own good, thought that you really want to be friends with me and then I discover that actually we just are fake friends"
I think this is what i would say... Hmmmm.... prefer an honest person who really wants to make friend....
Have you ever think before if you don't like a person, surely you will try to tell him NOT straightly....
but if he din understand you will be UPSET....
so , why dont just tell him, rather than make him felt happy coz he thought he got TRUE friends that care of him then suddenly let him knew that you scare you will get involve although its not His fault.... Maybe you wont feel pity but if you put u as 'HIM' , i think your life would be miserable.
